When we think of lesbians the word “erotic ” and “fantasy” comes to mind in most heterosexuals; however the irony is that we really are no different than them in so many ways. When we hear the word lesbian we may think relationship, person, woman, love, drama or heart-aches. We are very busy identifying often what our sexuality means and how it relates to the world that our sensual side often gets forgotten and unloved.
We become very focused on pleasing all others, parents, friends, work, children and of course our partners that our inner sex goddess gets put aside. Being sexually confident holds enormous power in maintaining a healthy Lesbian relationship and it is the key to attraction if you are a single Lesbian!
One of the most attractive aspects of an individual is their confidence, no matter what their orientation. A woman who feels attractive, comfortable in her body and sexual is automatically perceived as sexy!!! The most wonderful thing about being confident and sexy is that you do not have to look like a super model or one of the chicks from the L Word.
When you are sexually confident you have the magic of seduction, you are able to take responsibility for what pleases you. You let go of all walls and barriers that may be holding you back and are able to relax and enjoy sex. Being a Lesbian Seductress means knowing what you want and how to get it, you can initiate sex and have no worries about letting your woman know your inner most wants and desires.
A Lesbian Seductress (aka You!) is powerful, assertive in her character, knowing what she wants and what she needs, and how to ask for it. A Seductress is connected to her sexual persona and is intelligent enough to adapt and change quickly and maintain her strength. A diva warrior princess, she will fight another day for her sexual power and is always on the journey of self-discovery!
Being a sexual being is a piece of the whole of you and can be the one that breaks you or puts you down, so let us work on empowering her! Here are some tips:
Most importantly the key is in loving who you are and having a new belief that you deserve to be pleased and feel pleasure. Do not question who you are, acknowledge that you are a sexual person with fantasies, needs, secrets, wants, fetishes and desires. Explore your attitude about sex and yourself, and challenge those negative thoughts.
You are a powerful sexual woman, filled with passion and delight… say it loud… say it proud sister!
Alex Karydi~The Lesbian Guru