Gay thoughts are something that a lot of people struggle with. I can tell you from experience that if you are having these thoughts and they are bothering you, then you are not alone. The fact of the matter is that you are not something just because you think about it. Have you ever thought about killing someone? Does that mean that you would do it? No. It simply means that you had a thought about it. You should not read into your thoughts. Sometimes what happens is that people will have a gay thought and may feel excited by it. Again that does not mean that you are gay.
Gay thoughts don’t make you gay just like standing in a garage doesn’t make you a car. You need to know that if you were excited by your gay thoughts, it still doesn’t mean that you are gay. How can I say this? Consider this: there are people all over the world who get excited about thinking about beating someone up who has wronged you. It does not mean that you would actually do it. Sometimes you need to realize that having a thought does not mean that this is who you really are. I understand it can be tough because I’ve been there.
Gay thoughts for most of you who are reading this are something that you don’t want to struggle with anymore. I hear you. They are not pleasant if you are straight but the only way to get rid of these thoughts is to first understand that by having these thoughts it does not mean that you are gay and even if you got excited about these thoughts that still does not make you gay. The only thing that would actually make you gay is if you went and acted on these thoughts and made them into reality.
Many men and women all around the world suffer with gay thoughts. The people that don’t suffer with them are people who don’t make a big deal out of them. Big deal, you had a gay thought, we all do. What you need to do is tell yourself, “I cannot control what kinds of thoughts pop into my head.” You also need to know that if you are asking yourself, “Well why am I having these thoughts?” It’s because when you had the thought, you panicked and your brain focuses on things that make you panic and subsequently you think about it more.
Now that you know that gay thoughts don’t make you gay and that being excited about them sometimes does not make you gay, you should relax. Know that our brains have these thoughts out of curiosity. Then you need to understand that the first step in stopping gay thoughts is to not make a big deal out of them when you have them.
Instead understand that you cannot control what kinds of thoughts that you have and everyone has these thoughts. The only thing that would make you gay is to actually go out there and do gay things just like the only thing that would make you an actual baseball player is to actually get out there and play baseball. If you are not acting on these things, you are not gay. I have some more powerful information that will help you with this below, enjoy!