Tried to get a straight guy only to fall flat in your face? You may be hurting yourself more than the actual straight guy. True, the openness of the straight guy determines much of your success with him, but the way you conduct the pickup and the manner of your approach play a bigger part in getting that hot guy you want.
The most important thing to get into your mind when after a straight is that exactly – he is straight, therefore, the usual tactics and pickup lines you use in snagging other gays does not work for him. Different bird species need various baits.
Get a straight guy using what is innate to him, meaning, get in on his natural straight guy activities. Make him want to spend time with you because you have so many things in common you are sure to have loads of fun.
Being an obvious loud gay does not help you here. Instead be cool to hang out, just like any other friend he has. Join him on his gym trips, play the sport he does, join in his outdoor activities, and eat with him.
He should realize that you are a good guy to be by his side. He is bound to enjoy your company being your natural charming self with the help of all the time you have to be around him, and everything will start to fall into its proper place. Once you have him comfortable with you, it will be easier to tap into his erogenous zones because he is already at ease and getting him in the mood for sex will be easy.