Did you know that often bisexual and gay guys are better able to attract straight guys than women? Well, to tell you the truth, it may be simply because the bisexual and gay guys do not come with the additional burden of responsibilities that girlfriends or women seem to carry. With bisexual and gay guys, a straight guy can be sure that there is no pressure of marriage. A man to man relationship can grow even more if both men have girl friends. They can talk about their girl friends during their dates and even talk about their sexual likes and dislikes with men and women.
Well, if you are trying to attract a straight guy, there are several things that you might want to ensure to be successful.
In general, it might be important to note that if straight guys are inclined for a bisexual or gay relationship, they surely want to get over with it quickly. So, it is best not to send signals for wanting a long lasting relationship if you want to attract one. Remember, while conversing with a straight guy, you can show your sexual desire but do not expect a long term action from him. If you do show him a more desire for sex with him or if you want to attract him for a lasting relationship, be prepared to be dumped at any point of time. They just don’t take it too far with this!
There are several ways you can attract a straight guy. You could catch him after a hot workout at the gym or try a fast hook up on the internet. Just remember that straight guys are often involved in a non-serious relationship with their sexual male partners only. Often, they look for another guy merely like an emotionally meaningless diversion for quick sexual satisfaction in a state of distress or sex deprivation.
While it is may be easy for men to attract a straight guy, remember that sending the correct cues is the key to finding the right mate. Otherwise, your action may look weird and end up into possible embarrassment. This could ruin your position with the guy. You may look highly unattractive to him and lose his interest in you completely. You don’t want that, do you? So, be careful with your action and words while trying to hook a straight man. Remember that your action and body language speaks a lot about you.
Another thing that can help you attract a straight man more easily is the fact that straight men have no “worry” about being seen in public with a bisexual or a gay. Even though hanging out with a guy may look more “gay”, it is not necessary that he will be assumed to be a gay himself (which of course he would avoid being looked at as). You could simply be work or play buddies hanging out together in free time. So, the straight guys are way off the additional social issues when seen in public with a guy and this can work in your favour.
While you are trying to attract a straight guy, it may be better to be cautious about guessing the positive responses from them. You do not want to take him home and end up in a situation when you freak him out as you unzip your pants. This may cause a great deal of embarrassment leading either of you into psychological illnesses, self hatred and denial. So, it is best to take it easy whenever you are trying to attract a straight guy. You may even be able to attract one who is by being sober and knowledgeable.