OK, Stud….here it is. The odds are REALLY stacked against you, but remember, not ALL women are created equal! There is a better chance of you winning Playboy’s “Most Interesting Man” contest before you wife will bring home a playmate for you. That being said, IT HAPPENS TO SOMEBODY!!! Here are some simple steps to sway the odds to your favor.
First of all, over 63% of ALL women have “thought” about kissing (or more) another woman. That doesn’t mean they’ve thought about it a ton…but it has crossed their minds. 17% of women surveyed have stated that they have tried it or have thought about it more than twice. A full 8% said that given the right circumstances, they would entertain a three-some with their partner as long as the rules were clear.
So, the odds are 92% that you are going to strike out, chump. Don’t despair! After you read and execute the following steps, you can cut those odds in half, and at the very least, your fantasy time with your wife will increase TREMENDOUSLY! The key is to take a step by step approach to loosening up the Mrs. and getting her used to the idea of some “advanced” sex. It is IMPERATIVE that you take these steps in the proper order. Going out of order will set you back months and probably dump you back (maybe permanently) in the 92% of guys who have to keep those fantasies to themselves.
1. Dirty talk more often. This is harmless, playful, and can actually get the 63% bisexual “thinkers” to consider the later steps. If you can’t go further than this because you married sweet polly purebred, that’s OK. You will undoubtedly have the best pillow talk imaginable because it will remain a fantasy. This is where 70% of men end up anyway, so don’t despair. Then again, DON’T give up either! Depending on your desire, you may consider the following steps to at least get her to try some 3-D fantasies!
2. Watch pornographic movies together. Most of the porno on DVD contains some form of advanced sex. Even the edgy stuff can be considered harmless by many women (after all, its not THEM in the video-right?). After you get her used to watching a movie every so often, check out the lesbian stuff. Have a bottle of wine and be sure to laugh a ton. That will break down the barriers a bit more.
3. Go to a gentleman’s club together. The best way to broach this subject is to let her know that you’ve been to a few and you miss her! (That last convention was fun, but after you got home, you were a bit frustrated when you got back to your room) Get her to talk with one or two of the girls. Make sure it is a clean and classy place. Let the dancers know she is a newbie and any professional will help you out by making her feel welcome.
4. If you can get her to a club once, you can do it twice. Next visit, with the right application of alcohol and a week or two of celibacy, you should get her a lap dance. If you can see the same dancer as before, they may strike up a friendship….KaCHING!!!
5. After you have sufficiently warmed up the Mrs. to this classy, harmless, and exciting behavior, you stand a chance of taking it to the next level. Have a playful but serious conversation about experimentation, erotic topics and what it might be like for the 2 or 3 of you. Women respond to emotion. USE That emotion to your advantage. Some women will want a relationship; others won’t. YOU won’t know which way that will go until you start. For more in depth analysis and stories, get the book “Open” by Jenny Block.
6. IF you’ve got her to try now the 2nd most difficult part begins…WHO? You can try a professional or amateur…it’s up to the two of you. The more you talk about the rules, guidelines and expectations the better. Hiring an escort is a sure thing. Opening up a erotic dancer is the next best thing. Considering someone you know is a whole other ball game.
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